Every people who fuddle has their own story to tell you if you ask when, where and why did they start drinking? You might have heard people saying…
-> Beer is good to health and I started drinking it just to put on weight and I drink beer nothing else… (He might be a beginner)
-> I have it just to improve the charm of my face… you know consuming alcohol brings colour and shining to your skin…just try it and you will really feel it… (As if he is a dermatologist...)
-> I take them occasionally, that too when I’m with friends… (Because parents will not encourage such activities)
-> I consume them just like that… and drinking is not a sin (As if he is a priest)
-> They act as medicine to forget all my pains and sorrows (No one can help him)
-> I drink for passion and style (mmm Fashion designer… who said drinking is stylish...)
-> It is time pass for me… that too on a week end I surely booze all the night till 3 or 4 in the morning… (Killing the time and spoiling the health... both are precious)
Many more to the list… it is all cock and bull stories… in one shot they drink just because they want to.
I too have a story for my want of boozing… it might be strange but yes I really feel at times to booze…
I was calling Raghu (not his real name), one of my friends to come to Hyderabad and spend some time with me. He was just postponing it week after week. I invited him to my birthday party two days in advance. Still, he didn't. Another guy Arjun (not his real name), from our group came to Hyderabad and called him on my birthday to have a sitting (to booze). He started immediately on the same day and reached Hyderabad the next day morning 6am. It doesn’t mean that Raghu is close to Arjun; in fact he loves me a lot. But still some thing made him to post pone, while I was calling. And in fact, it was booze that dragged him here when Arjun, called him for a sitting.
I was an observer in that party. I saw Raghu very happy after a long time. Repeat.. Repeat.. Repeat.. Every one drank peg after peg with full of joy. They started talking about every thing, our college days, cinema, sports, and almost every thing that happens on this earth. I felt isolated; still I was happy seeing all my friends in happy mood.
We all met after a long time… boozing brought them close… I felt I need to booze…
I had another experience with Ramu (not his real name). I went to his room to be the first to wish him on his birthday. I met him while I was going to his room in the evening. He was going out for a party and said he will be back soon. I waited... waited and waited… Hero came at 1.30am… fully drunk. He couldn't even hold the gift which was given. He said “Sorry Mohan, actually I didn’t knew it will go so long today. They forced me to booze and I couldn’t say no because it is my last birthday with them”. He didn't realize that it's the same with me.
I rarely wish people at 12.00am. As this guy is leaving me and I might not meet him on his next birthdays, I went to his room. Still I couldn't be the first to wish him because I wasn't at his side on the hour. All his boozing partners wished him and gave birthday bumps too. He came home trembling. Had I been a boozer myself, I would have been among those who wished him first…
There are many more time when I was left behind because I don't booze....parties, get together, etc. I feel to booze whenever such things happen. I would be happily boozing, than to be kept aside by the best of my friends...
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enti bhayya, bhaaariga kummesaaavu....anyways from my side i dont want to see u boozing..anyways its ur choice...i plead u not to booze just to be with boozers....
even u dont booze u can still b with them
-Santhu
hm.. yedo kavitwam cheppi nattundi,
Nuvvu Chepanayithe nenu neeti navutha..
Neevu Pakshivayite nenu Galinavutha..
Neevu alavu ayithe, nenu teeramavutha..
Annaatttundi.
Lucky are the people, for whom U want to mould urself ( even to the extreams). But concept lo yekkado BUG vundi.
If u are feeling so much about them(to the extent of imposing new habbits on urself), he sould be one of the best friend of you.
If he has felt the above, he would have given you his clear schedule to you, that he cant afford to miss u in the first step. Atleast, he would call u back, even if u havent due to some reason.
If hasnt felt the above, it was the wrong decision to spend the night for him.
Dear friends are always dear, for whom u need not change ur habbits. For non dears, no need to change ur habbits. So I feel there is some bug in the concept. May I know what is it?
Hi Mohan,
Back to biragi mood or what? A long wait of two plus months is to find you back to dejected moods which make you feel like Devdas...!
Boss, life is not all about Booze.
Krish is right in gauging friends; for best friends you need not amend yourself and to amend yourself you need not feel the void of friends.
It is always fair with different habits of the same people whom we might be knowing for quite some time. As you cannot be rigid in a particular community for long and keep changing, meeting new people and new crowd, we try to get along with all (we need to) and it sometimes will induce such a drastic change in habits that might look strange after a long gap.
You need to value friendship if you feel for it and if possible show the right path to those, who need to change themselves and not to get ourselves onto wrong paths just for the sake of spending a little time now whereas there is still so much life ahead where again, the people tend to change depending upon the consequences and roles & resposibilities they take on.
It is all in the game and you need to enjoy the fame; not to have your heart in flame and not to feel any shame since you donot booze. So, cheerup Mr.Devdas and get going.
All the best and take care.......
With thanks, regards and best wishes,
Kanth.
i hate the topic, anduke chadava ledu...
keerthi.
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