This is what I ask myself after being silent for hours without knowing any reason. Well people say it is “depression” in psychological terms. I don’t know all those terminologies, symptoms, etc. All that I know is… it really hurts a lot.
What is the reason behind that silence?
I tried to find the root causes of it… Few of them are…
Some one very near and dear leaving me (might be for a short period or for a long duration or even a permanent departure)…Some one whom I think close to me is not really close… and the worst part is, the same person being very close to some one else… mmm… it happens with many of us, any way, we can’t force some one to be the same way as we are with him/her. At times even our action and the way we are with some one might hurt him/her. No one is responsible for it… Right!!!
Sometimes it might be because of…
Some thing which I couldn’t achieve as planned…
Some precious thing which I lost…
Some promises which were broken…
Some one misunderstanding me…
Some one cheating me… this list goes on and on.
How do I come out of it?
I don’t know any scientific methods. All I know is when I see the smiling face of a child, have a small chat with my family, receive a phone call from my friend or even a mail (not a forward) pulls me out of it. Hope you got the summary… be in touch. Keep calling and mailing me.
Now tell me about you? What makes you to be off and how do you come out of it?
(Share your thoughts here in comments)
7 comments:
UNCONDITIONAL ACCEPTANCE
Never is the case with me..
Cos by the time I go silent, I obviously remember someone how sooth me.
The only difference I can see in the consoling strategy is, I dont wait for friends's mail, chat with family or something. But will make it come.
I am very happy I have LOTS OF TRUE LOVING PEOPLE ON THIS EARTH. So never felt hurt of being lonely or getting Cheater.
Mohan,
Pics are cool, but matter is too senty, Hope U will keep a rocking & electrifying BLOG next. With ur stunning Disco/Celebration related Photos.
Chear Up Dude... WORLD IS LOOKING TO KNOW UR ENTHU.
-Krishna
What 'swar' said is true - Unconditional acceptance. Try to practise it. It is not easy but try it out.
Once more thing live for your self (don’t act). Try your best not to cheat any one. Give your best to your near and dear, but don’t expect any thing in return. When it will come back into your way you will feel happy :-) really I experienced it.
Listen what your heart says in the silence. It is something it conceives, which you usually ignore by indulging in your day to day activities.
When some thing goes wrong, it is your choice how you want to be (Cry, sad, happy etc.) Reaction is in your hands.
So, be happy and have a believe that what ever is happened, happened for a reason :-)
REQUEST TO THE ANONYMOUS
The anonymous, Plz Write ur names also.........
As per the handwriting is concerned [;)] the second anonymous seems to be madhavi.
Let me know how good I guessed.
-Krishna
Krishna you are wrong. Once more guess please :-)
hi ra mohan,
NO More Postings..
Waiting for ur next post.
Dear Mohan,
Life is a journey which should be made by any creature on one's own terms and conditions with the available convenience and accounting the constraints. It is good to know that you are looking for your God's creation (in innocent Child's smile), Family and Friends when you are in a need of your mental upliftment (from depression or deep suppression).
However, they are not only present at that sole times of dejected conditions to be rejected when you are fine and having a shine.
Try to look out for them at every moment of life (you can have them always in your thoughts to refersh yourself all the time, so that you cannot get depressed by the work load or daily routine (which you need to face as they are made for that).........
Hope, you will change your attitude and approach from now on and will go on and on and on......
All the best and take care........
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