Tuesday, April 25, 2006

It is really hard to hit a girl…

It is really hard to hit a girl. If you are hitting her hard then it is still harder. I came to know this fact with my personal experience today. You couldn’t believe RaMo hitting a girl hard right! But it all happened today.

At 9.00am while I was taking my bath, I heard some one opening the main door. I thought it might be one of my room mates and called “Hari…Shekar…” I heard no response. I came out of bathroom and saw main door open. I couldn’t see anyone in the room. I ran out to see who might have opened the door. I could see a girl of age 20+ who was standing in front of my neighbor’s door. When I asked her who she is ... She replied “be… bey…be...” with some signs indicating she couldn’t speak. I couldn’t believe that she was really dumb. She is not just a girl by records; she is a real good looking girl, tall and slim. My neighbour just then came out and gave her Ten rupees.

Suddenly some thing flashed in my mind. I ran into my room and saw my purse, cell phone etc, and found Rs. 380 missing from my purse. I got hold of her and checked her bag. To my surprise I found my 380 rupees and 1,740 rupees… CASH...!!!. She is a THIEF… damn it… I couldn’t stop my hand hitting her on her cheek. After I smashed her, she yelled “Anna.. nannu vodiley anna…”. She was pretending as if she was dumb.

Basti people came running to my room and checked her completely. She was running out of my hand. I couldn’t hold her. When basti women got hold of her, she fell on my feet, caught my legs and started crying… I knew she's acting but felt uncomfortable with her holding my legs (so tight). I could only kick her to get rid of her. Every one was shouting at her. After a long lectures and hits, she was let free with a severe warning.

Thought of taking the rest of the amount and dropping it in a temple hundi. But I did not do that. Any way the thing that’s bugging me is… whom should we sympathize with ... whom should we trust… these questions remain unanswered. Events like these are driving compassion and love for fellow beings away from my heart.

8 comments:

Krishna said...

Hi ra mohan,

Women in india are respected. But I dont find fault in ur act. Though I would have not behaved like you, I could not blame anyone else doing like you.

Though it happend I dont think it was first time for her to happen like that. Sympathy & Profit are their(her) backups. I dont believe any sincere classes or servere warnings would hav served the purpose.

But finally, if i were you, I might have tried to give the money back from where she stolen(ofcourse by threatening abt police).

Light ra, No need to sympathize on any one nor trust any. Try helping someone in real need(in ur preception) warn/punish/scold someone doing wrong before you. Besides giving satisfaction for reacting in right way, it might affect the people atleast 0.000001%.

As I expected, this time also ur blog turned out to be on Human-Relationships analysing, Guilt Feeling, Seeking Justice comments[:(] . But, a bit action stimulating, ammayi slim & beautiful annnav, so romantic touch istavemo anukonna, bad luck.

Anyways, Hope u will find A PRETTY NICE GIRL or A AWAITED ACHIEVEMENT or UNEXPECTED PLEASENT SURPRISE that next time we can hav a new flavour of BLOG.

Krishna said...

reyi my new blog

Krishna said...

hi ra mohi,

Ur comments accepted. Next Nuvvu tollywood RaMo ayite nenu bollywood Krissh yenduku kakoodadu ani pinchindi.

So from now, See me as Krissh

LOL

Anonymous said...

Marry that poor gal and help her to settle down. ;-)

- :-D

..::RaMo::.. said...

Hey Anonymous, she is already settled dude... If she earns more than 2000(1700 + 380)in two hours what else do u need to settle down :-)

Regarding my marriage... I hope you know that I will get married to a girl accepted by my Dad... so we need to ask this poor girl to go to Chittoor and try once at my home... if at all my dad feels pity on this poor girl and asks me to marry her... then,...
I will marry her ... :-(

Cheers,
RaMo

Krishna said...

wow,

I can find many such gals at mumbai beaches. This weekend anyways I am going there, will select one for you and send to chittor. Selection is guaranted.

Advanced Happy Married Life RaMo.

Krishna said...

Reyi, Unlike earlier postings, no photo this time? So post marriage wife ni job ki pamputava or u like her to be homely after marriage?

We want Photo.
We want Photo.
We want Photo.
We want Photo.
We want a latest Photo.
We want the best dress award Photo.
Mohan should post photo.
Mohan should post photo.
Mohan should post photo.
Mohan should post photo.

-Mohan Fan's club leader

Srikanth said...

Hi Mohan,

As you have named your blog as "Colours of life", why do you not make yourself to see all the colours that are available in life?

Are you going to join any "Sant Nirankari Sadan" or trying to move out of the normal social life?

You cannot expect every one to be RaMos in world (if you think they should be). Be practical and accept the reality.

Life is neither a "Midsummer Night's Dream" nor a "Tempest", it's simply a "Comedy Of Errors", to be lived "As You Like It"; if you go by the Shakespeare's novels.

You have not done any wrong in punishing the deserved. Be it a woman or man, any one should be seen equally in view of Law and Justice.

Atleast, the incident might have created a spark of revolution in that lady's mind to change her way of living. (Always hope for the best).

One more thing, it is good to knwo that you respect your father's selection of your life partner.
However, never marry a girl showing pity or courtesy.

Marriage, makes two lives to live one for other for life with sharing and caring with eqaul importance and compliance with individual significance.

I guess, as you are thinking of marriage now, you are no more a kid to take time or need any addition to understand the above.

With thanks, regards and best wishes............