Rounik went to a movie with his friends. Every one was watching the movie. Suddenly Koushik called his friend and said “Hey! See Rounik is crying dude... Hahaha”
“He is crying like a girl yaar. Hey! Stop crying like a girl and be a guy. Ok” said Aashik.
This happens with few guys. Can’t a guy feel the pain of others? In fact, Rounik was so involved in the movie that he was vicariously suffering the pain of the hero. He didn’t realize that he was crying, sub consciously. He enjoyed the movie. Every other person might have enjoyed commenting him but not the movie.
Vishal faced a similar situation. There was a blood donation camp organized by his firm. Most of them volunteered. Kunal donated blood and came to Vishal and said “Dude aren’t you donating your blood?”
“No”
“Why Vishal, do you have any allergy or problems?”
“No Kunal. Actually I am scared of injections and allergic to see my blood. So I don’t want to donate blood.”
“What! Are you scared of injections… come on… don’t be a girl. See here Shanthi, Sowmya and many other girls are donating blood. You say you are scared…mmm “said Kunal.
Guy who is scared of giant wheels and roller coaster rides, fond of flowers and nature, love babies too much, likes to cook, washes his clothes, cleans the house, gardening etc generally face this problem. Is it right likening him to a girl? We need to think…
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6 comments:
true mohan, we need to think...
the pain, feeling and emotions are same for guys too. It is not written anywhere that girls only cry, be emotional etc.
mmm...time to think deeply.....
cheers,
Keerthi.
Hi MohAN,
This is a good topic and also the never answerable (to true spirits) debate to discuss on.
Well, I always think about this as to why women are meant for house keeping and men, for hunting for life.
Also, there are terms like MANager, MANual, MANifest and not anything that reflects woMAN (oh MAN even woman is incomplete without a man).
Also, there are some social restrictions owing to even physical and biological appearances where men can go bare top and the other gender cannot. It they bare, they are rare or have great dare. But, in general they are scared and also those who cover themselves termed to be sacred. Since, it is true that any feelings like happiness, agony, touch, pain, loss or gain are common to all (even to animals and plants, proven by science) - only Animals are kept in Zoo, Birds in Sanctuary, Plants in Garden and Trees in Forest. Similarly, it is some science that defined women for home and men to roam.
Though Gent sounds like Gentle and Lady seems to be loud, it is actually the contrary. You can experience this (might have experienced) and can answer your own post. Check it out.....
All the best and take care...
With thanks, regards and best wishes,
G.Srikanth.
enti no updates???!!!!
no blogs since long time:-(
He he..
I throught of responding to Mohan but, srikanth over took.
Dear Srikanth,
Dont be hurt, I know u r open harted and dont take anything offensive. So not thinking twice to write to u.
I really felt funny. The comparison u made between ( Man, Manager.. is there any etymological derivation? I might be ignorant as well) (woman, topless) (Gent, Gentle) (no woman with out man)...
About woman topless.. its about sensitivity.. come can u compare that with freedom. Now average exposure of boys is less than girls.. Dresses are affect of their taste, interest.
Though it was bit funny here, I really liked ur creativity & ability to resemble things and present. I strongly believe YOU CAN MAKE SOMETHING NEW.. UNLIKE MANY WHO JUST SPEND THEIR LIVES IN SAME ROUTINE-WORK SET BY OTHERS.
all the best.
>>Mohan said .. "we need to think.."
Ya throught for some time..
When ever I watch any movie I assume myself in one of the roles.
In your preset blog also, I can see my role. I cry in movies( ofcourse while watching small clippings also, I jump all around when a cockroach comes near, and scream when somebody kills it. I get unconcious if i see sombody being pierced (ofcourse I do donate blood, but I close my eyes ;) ). I wash my cloths, clean the house, like to cook(just for a change & do in my style). I am neither proud nor worried about it.
As far as I know, all these are BRAIN ACTIVITIES.. left part brain controls right part and right part of brain controls left part. Fortunately/Unfortunately MALE has active left part, hence he is generally tactful in activities ( dont ask me about why boys are physically stronger). FEMALE have right part of brain active, so they easily get attached to emotions and are sensitive. Exceptions are there like me.
But are your friends Rounik & Vishal humiliated by their other friends' comments? Kunal was trying to help him.. to avoid his fear. Koushik was doing a funny tease. Even my sister teases me & now my wife. They watch me instead of movie on such scenes. But that OK.
If ur friend Rou & Vis are hurt.. Ask ur Rounik & Vishal to be like MAN.. oops.. :p
JUST CHILL AND ENJOY..
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